For most people, high school is a right of passage. The four years you spend in high school are life changing. It’s your time to decide who you’re going to be and start planning what you want to become. You go through triumphs, heartbreaks, and experiences that help mold you into the person you’re going to be for the rest of your life. High school isn’t anywhere near easy though and in fact it’s the exact opposite. While trying to find out who you are you’re faced with judgement, cruelty, and dilemmas. Peers judge your every move and decision. Who you’re friends with and what you wear is what you’re known by. No matter who you are or who you want to be, you’ll always live under and live by a stereotype.
Stereotypes are a part of high school that everyone has to deal with. They help make you into a stronger and more sophisticated person. Freshman Carl Sones is a prime example of this. He’s dealt with the cruelty of stereotypes his entire life and looking back on it, he wouldn’t change a thing. Sones’s passion in life is music. He gives guitar lessons, practices three hours a day, and goes to festivals to improve his skills. On top of all that, Sones is a member of two bands and a jazz band. Sones has a signature style as well. Most kids know him because of his “fashionable” hat that he’s always seen wearing. It was a long and hard path to get Sones the confidence he has today. Sones was a victim of bullying and it’s all because of his differences. In the end, Sones admits that it has all just made him into a stronger musician.
Everyone stereotypes in high school. It’s a natural mechanism for all human beings. Our brains pull memories and information out from past experiences and use that information as a way to conserve energy. It’s one of the little amazing things our brain does to help us. So why do people think stereotypes are so terrible? Without our brains we wouldn’t be able to function. Everything our brain does for us is vital to our existence. We shouldn’t question the short cuts and gifts it allows us to have.
Stereotypes in the long run help people more then hurt them. If you’re stereotyped then you’ll know what it’s like to be treated badly and you won’t want to treat others that way. It ends up helping out lots of people. Take Junior Joey Merz’s story for example. Merz runs track and plays football for BHS. He’s an athlete so it isn’t surprising that he falls under the stereotype, “Athletes are Jerks”. Merz believes that this stereotype is false and that people misinterpret athletes. His reaction to this stereotype is to be extra nice to other people so that they will stop believing it’s true.
In high school it may seem like everyone is out to get you and that you’ll never fit in. You may even think that the group you hang out with and what you’re stereotyped under will affect you your entire life. There’s an upside to all this criticism though. One day you’ll look back on all of it and be thankful. From my research I can honestly say that stereotypes help you in the long run. Without them you wouldn’t grow into a strong and confident person. You’d take the easy way out of things and give up on the difficulties you encounter in life. To sum it all up, stereotypes have a good side to them. Even if it’s hard to see that as a freshman or even senior in high school believe me that they’re doing you a lot more good then bad. The strongest people in the world live under stereotypes and if you’ve survived high school, you’re one of them.